internal/http3: implement server read and write deadlines

The HTTP/3 server now enforces the net/http server's ReadHeaderTimeout,
ReadTimeout, and WriteTimeout that is registered via RegisterServer.

Also clean up logic related to stream closure and reset in the server
implementation. Instead, just return the appropriate error and let
genericConn.handleStreamError deal with the stream closure and reset.

IdleTimeout is not yet implemented and will be added separately.

For golang/go#70914

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