ssh: initialize new channels fully before adding them to chanList

newChannel published the channel into the mux's chanList (via
chanList.add) before assigning its localId, and openChannel/Accept set
maxIncomingPayload only after newChannel returned. For an outbound
channel, whose newChannel runs on an application goroutine, the mux
loop could observe the channel through getChan before those fields
were initialized, reading a zero localId or maxIncomingPayload with no
happens-before relationship.

Assign localId inside add while the chanList lock is held, and set
maxIncomingPayload (always channelMaxPacket) in newChannel itself, so
a channel returned by getChan is always fully initialized.

Change-Id: Ib54a5d10dcb5c1ad8ed4dabe5d8d2790778be298
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/crypto/+/797061
Reviewed-by: Filippo Valsorda <filippo@golang.org>
LUCI-TryBot-Result: golang-scoped@luci-project-accounts.iam.gserviceaccount.com <golang-scoped@luci-project-accounts.iam.gserviceaccount.com>
Reviewed-by: David Chase <drchase@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Junyang Shao <shaojunyang@google.com>